Use Smart Goals To Overcome The Tyranny Of The Unimportant
By Andrew Cox
Introductory comments by Royane Real
The following article by Andrew Cox is on the subject of how to achieve success by staying focused on your goals without becoming distracted.
I have to admit, the title of this article is a little bit peculiar.
“The Tyranny of the Unimportant” - what could those words possibly mean? And how does this title fit in with the topic of staying focused on goals?
The author of this article is referring to something that happens to many of us. Just when we really need to work on an important task, we often get sidetracked by something that isn’t important. Even though it isn't at all important, it suddenly becomes the only thing we focus on.
Instead of doing our important tasks, we do the unimportant. And the less important these tasks are, the more time and attention we give them. The more attention we pay to our unimportant goals, the less attention we pay to the goals that really matter to us.
I remember very well in my University years, that whenever I had to write an essay or study for an important test, suddenly I would become completely fascinated by books on obscure topics that had absolutely nothing to do with what I needed to read at that particular moment.
I would spend hours reading those obscure and unimportant books and I would learn a lot, but in the meantime, my real project was delayed.
Today, this still happens to me a lot, but this time it happens on the internet. Before I start writing my articles for the day, first I check in on all my email accounts. I read the news. I read some blogs. I check out some sales on ebay.
Then finally, if I still have time and energy, I try to get around to doing the work I really need to do.
I don’t know if I have a bigger problem than other people do in terms of doing the least important things first, instead of the important things. I know that I have a very bad procrastination problem. I don’t know if it’s just a bad habit I’ve developed, or if I actually have some form of adult ADHD. Actually, in my case, I suspect it is the ADHD.
Because I’m so easily distracted from working on my goals, I’m always looking for helpful articles that might get me to work on the things I need to do as well as the things I like to do.
If you also have a problem with endless procrastination, loss of focus, and massive underachievement, you may find the following article helpful.
( The above introductory comments are by Royane Real. Do you want to get helpful self improvement information in your e-mail? Sign up for my free no obligation newsletter in the box at the left of this article. )
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Use Smart Goals To Overcome The Tyranny Of The Unimportant
By: Andrew Cox
Have you ever caught yourself rearranging your desk, or your E Mail files, or checking E Mail, or making a purchase on Amazon, or automatically answering your cell phone, even when you know the call isn't important - when you know, in your gut, that there is more important work to be done?
And you just can't bring yourself to make that phone call, or that prospect call, or answer that E Mail request for information, or work on the quarterly reports?
If you answered Yes, welcome to the world of Resistance, that force that always shows up when we are attempting to create positive change and progress - when we try to step out of the box - when we try to confront fear.
Resistance shows itself in many ways - you can't touch it, step on it, feel it - but you know it when it happens. And one of the most frequent ways it shows itself is through the Tyranny of the Unimportant. That force that takes us away from the work that will result in progress and success, and puts us in the middle of "thin things."
The Tyranny of the Unimportant is procrastination at its best - or worst. We're busy as hell - just not effective. And that to-do list with ten things on it has eight things crossed out at the end of the day, but the two top things remain untouched. And we're frustrated and apprehensive.
The sneaky thing about procrastination is that it isn't caused by people quitting or turning their backs on what they have or want to do - it's that they'll do it - tomorrow. And Resistance through the Tyranny of the Unimportant is right there to help.
Procrastinators aren't lazy. In fact, most of the procrastinators I know are some of the busiest, brightest, most motivated, most energetic people you could imagine. They have to - do lists, they work fast and hard and get a lot done - how can people like that be called procrastinators?
One answer - they do the most urgent thing first - but not the most important thing. If you looked at their daily lists of things to do, you would find too much for one person to accomplish, and most of the demands are reacting to the requirements of others.
And this Tyranny - to a great extent - is self imposed. Stephen Pressfield, in his excellent book "The War of Art," makes the point that "Resistance," that evil force that only shows itself to keep us from doing something positive, shows itself through the Tyranny of the Unimportant
Pressfield is a writer - he wrote "the Legend of Bagger Vance," among other books. Just like most self employed people he has to be a self starter. People who are their own boss, who don't have someone breathing down their neck, who have to do the important things in order to survive and prosper must overcome the Tyranny of the Unimportant.
So how to overcome this Resistance - this enemy of accomplishment - that form of Procrastination?
First realize that Resistance is the product of fear 'in its many forms. Fear of failure, fear of not good enough, fear of not being able, fear of not being worthy, fear of being told no - the list is a long one.
Fear shows itself by trying to force us not to do what we know to be the most important thing. And rather than confronting and overcoming that fear, we direct our efforts to the not so important - and fool ourselves into thinking we are overcoming Resistance by deflecting it. We're not.
And Resistance wins another round. The only way to overcome fear is to confront it - and push through it. And realize that it will come back tomorrow, and the day after that - and the day after that. But overcoming it today makes overcoming it tomorrow a little bit easier. Letting it win today makes it so much more difficult to overcome tomorrow.
The good news about fear is that the things we fear the most are the most important things we must do. Now that's cutting to the chase. If rejection is at the top of the fear list, overcoming rejection is where action needs to be taken.
If the fear of a No answer after asking for a line of credit is the most fearful thing to do, it has to be done first. If the greatest fear is public speaking, or developing relationships, that's where success will be found. In addition to turning fear around and using it to identify the really important, take a survey - ask people you know what's important to them.
The really successful will tell you, specifically, what they want, and how they're going to get it. From the not so successful, you'll hear answers like "want to be happy," or "successful," or "rich," or "healthy." or the "best." Nice sentiments, but hardly what's needed to overcome the
Resistance that will try to keep them from achieving those sentiments. If your answer is at that level, you gotta drill down and define what terms like happy, rich, healthy, success really mean on a personal level - in concrete terms that can be the basis for goals.
Goals are critical to overcoming Procrastination in any form - but particularly in dealing with the Tyranny of the Unimportant. Use those things you fear the most, and the things you've identified as wanting the most, to create SMART goals - Specific, Measurable, Attainable, Relevant/Realistic and Time Framed. And avoid the temptation to load up on goals.
Procrastinators are really great at letting their optimism get ahead of their reason, and establishing a set of goals that is way too ambitious. It's a great way to set up failure, and to not confront the question of priorities. Three to five goals - no more. This is one place where less is more.
Then create a daily, weekly and monthly list of To Do's - and prioritize them. What you use to designate their importance can be any number of things. Some people use "Must Do's", "Want to Do's and "Nice to Do's." Others use A, B, C or 1, 2, 3 as priorities.
Going out much further than a month can be a waste of time - an unimportant exercise - things are often so dynamic that a crystal ball would be needed to look further out in the future. The important thing is to do it - and then stick to it, leaving space for the urgent important things that always pop up.
Trust the goals you develop. Then act on your fears through your priorities and your goals.
The reward? You've overcome Resistance - today. You've become more effective - you've confronted fears and become so much better at doing that - and you realize that fear can actually take you where you need to go. And you accept that. And you gain a huge measure of personal control over your time.
Start with truly important goals - and start today.
Andy Cox helps clients align their resources and design and implement change through the application of goals focused on the important few elements that have maximum impact in achieving success - as defined by the client. He can be reached at http://www.coxconsultgroup.com and E Mail at This e-mail address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it
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