by Royane Real

Author of   ““Your Guide to Finding Friends, Making Friends and Keeping Friends”

There are many benefits as well as many pitfalls that can lie waiting in our friendships.  Friendships can give us both blessings and problems. 

When our friendships are going well, it can be like heaven.  When we have bad relationships with our friends, it can be like hell. 

Why does this happen?  Why do our friendships sometimes turn rotten, or difficult?  Why do we get betrayed by those friends we trusted?  Why do we get used by our friends? 

Because we all are only human.  We make mistakes.  We misunderstand.  We become fearful or selfish.  Sometimes we’re not selfish enough.

We try too hard to be good to others, and we don’t try hard enough to look after our own needs first.  We sometimes are thoughtless to our friends.  Sometimes our friends are thoughtless to us.  Sometimes we are so desperate for friendship that we sell our selves out.  We don’t protect our selves from those friends in our circle who are manipulative and cunning and who can’t be trusted.

Still, no matter how terrible the friendships we get into sometimes might be, our friendships and relationships are also the school where we can learn to do it better. 

In the school of relationships, we can learn to become better, more trustworthy friends.  We can learn how to set limits on other people’s behavior so that they can’t exploit us.  We can learn which people we should avoid, and what sorts of behavior from others we must say no to. We can learn when it’s time to walk away, and when it’s time to stay and work things out.

We can learn what it feels like to have a relationship that is close and healthy.    

( The introductory comments above were written by Royane Real. )

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By Royane Real

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