Are Friends Happy Being With You?
By: CD Mohatta
Introductory comments by Royane Real
Author of “Your Guide to Finding Friends, Making Friends and Keeping Friends”
Do you have a personality that lights up the room? Or does all the light go out of the room when you enter it?
You’ve probably noticed that some people are naturally more fun to be with than others. People who are genuinely happy themselves and who let their light shine seem to attract others much more easily.
By contrast, people who are always gloomy and negative and sarcastic act as friendship repellants. No one wants to spend much time with a very negative person.
If we are truly gloomy and depressed, how do we make friends with others? How can we balance our need to truly be ourselves and not put on a false front when there is so much negativity inside us?
One answer is that we do not need to concentrate only on our negativity or on the negativity in the world.
No matter how much negativity we have within us, we also have some positivity as well.
It is a question of where we choose to put our focus.
We will find it more easy to attract others even while we struggle to be our true selves when we look for the positive that already exists within us and within those around us.
In the following article, the author CD Mohatta explores some simple methods that can attract others to us in friendship.
( The introductory comments which appear above are by Royane Real )
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Feature Article:
Are Friends Happy Being With You?
By: CD Mohatta
We all have different style of talking, laughing, smiling, responding and communicating.
Some of us are a comfort for others. We enjoy being with some people and we do not enjoy some people.
What is the difference between these persons? Why does one person’s presence enliven the gathering and other person dulls it? What are the qualities needed to make one self socially popular?
Smile -The very first important quality is a smile. When we see some body smiling, we feel pleased. And if the smile is without any malice it is more enchanting. Keep smiling. Keep your problems within yourself and keep your face smiling.
Listening - when we do not speak but only listen, people love us. All of us have our own problems and we need somebody to listen to us. Become a good listener. Ask open ended question such as – “And after that?” “Why?” And so on. That will encourage the speaker to pour out all to you.
Have something funny to say - There is enough pain in the world. Bring in some laughter. Have a collection of jokes and make your friends laugh. The more they laugh, the more they will enjoy your company.
Appreciate - have a word of appreciation for everyone. You can appreciate some body clothes, or shoes or what ever. Appreciate. Make you friends feel good.
To be friendly and to be charming is not an art. It can be easily developed by all of us. The only need is to pay less attention to our self and more to others.
Make your friends happy and they will love your presence. Make your presence the life of any gathering. Success is yours.
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