Tips for a Fulfilling Friendship
By: Don Latu
Introductory comments by Royane Real
Author of “Your Guide to Finding Friends, Making Friends and Keeping Friends”
We all want to have happy and fulfilling relationships with other people. Some of us are able to do this naturally and easily, while others find it a struggle to create lasting relationships and friendships.
In the following article the author Don Latu presents us with a number of good tips that can make all our friendships and relationships work better.
Although a lot of what goes into starting a new friendship is based on things like finding what you have in common, that’s not enough to keep a friendship going. What sustains a friendship over the long run is trust and respect. When trust and respect are present, then a deeper level of affection and companionship can develop. If trust and respect are not present, the relationship will always be superficial, and true friendship will never develop.
How can you create trust and respect in friendship? To receive trust, you must always behave towards your friends with respect. Some of the ways we can show our respect to our friends are contained in this article by Don Latu.
Some of us learn these lessons in early childhood, some of us never learn them.
Sometimes it seems like too much of a burden to ask us to show respect to our friends. Instead, we sometimes want the world to revolve around us.
None of us is perfect when it comes to friendships and relationships. We all make mistakes sometimes. We are all thoughtless sometimes. Sometimes we think too much of our own needs and not enough of the other person. Sometimes we value the needs of the other person too much and we do not respect our own needs enough.
We need to balance the rights and needs of our friends with our own rights and needs. We need to learn when to stand up and speak and when to sit down and listen.
( These introductory comments which appear above are by Royane Real )
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Tips for a Fulfilling Friendship
By: Don Latu
Friendship should be something you prioritize and there’s a good reason for that: you can meet some of your essential needs only through friendship. For example, do you want people to care about you? Well, one of the best ways for that is friendship because through friendship people can care about each other.
Friendship is not something new for most of us because we already knew about it since our childhood. The problem is how to have good, fulfilling friendship and that’s what this article is about.
Here are some tips you can apply to have a fulfilling friendship:
1. Understand first
While we want to be understood by others, sometimes we forget to try to understand others. But there is no way you can have a fulfilling friendship if you just want to be understood without trying to understand. Such a friendship will eventually encounter problems that will be difficult to solve. So it’s essential that you try to understand others before asking to be understood.
2. Be a good listener
Being a good listener is an indispensable part of understanding others because you can’t understand others without listening to them. Only by listening to them can you understand what they are saying both explicitly and implicitly. This requires you to really focus on them and give them your full attention. But the reward is clear: you will understand them better. They will also feel that you care.
3. Admit your mistakes
There are times when you make mistakes in your friendship and it could be difficult to admit them. But to have a fulfilling friendship you should be willing to admit your mistakes. After all, making mistakes is normal because nobody is perfect. Your willingness to admit mistakes will encourage your friends to do the same and the end result will be a fulfilling friendship for all of you. On the other hand, not admitting mistakes is a good way to end a friendship.
4. Avoid unrealistic expectations
Having realistic expectations is essential because it prevent you from having unnecessary disappointments. If you have unrealistic expectations, it will be easy for you to be disappointed. But you should understand that your friends – just like you - are not perfect. They do make mistakes. By having realistic expectations you will open the way to a good and lasting friendship.
Applying these tips is not easy but they can help you have a fulfilling friendship. Don’t wait for other people to take the initiative. Start with yourself.
About the Author
Read Don's article on relationship problems and his review of How to Win Friends and Influence People.
Article source: http://www.articlerich.com
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